What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:07
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
How do you say "have fun" in French?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Why didn't my ex fight for our relationship? He gave up so easily.
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
What is the most craziest dream you ever had?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Can you write a short story with a twist ending?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Why do the majority of feminists hate men (not all feminists)?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
What are the best ways to treat seasonal allergies?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Has anyone tried bestiality and been caught?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Why are Indians so influenced by the Western culture, when the Indian tradition has so much to give?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
*** Questions About Me ***
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
What happens when you get sick in a country with universal healthcare? What's the process like?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
If you win, what will you make them do?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would you read them together?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
If yes, what?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Any that are a turn off?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Please share Did you stop?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
52~ What are your hobbies?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Nothing too Serious
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
How old are you? Male or Female?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
39~ What are your love languages?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
What is your favorite position? Why?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
29- How superstitious are you?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
The Ice Breaker Questions
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Family Relation Age Play
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
*** Random Questions ***
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Any that are a turn off?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…